"You are a clever boy, and I believe you can solve this problem." "Your efforts and persistence are very commendable" … Recently, the "child-praising artifact" similar to the "100-sentence kuawa template" became popular on the Internet.

Many parents "encourage" their children according to the template, thinking that they have got the "truth" of education, and many parents are worried. So, what is the really effective encouragement education for children?

Parents put down their sticks, abandoned their roars and embarked on the road of "non-violence" family education, believing that "good children are boastful" is worthy of recognition and promotion. But encouragement is not just "praising children", we should really make good use of encouraging education and avoid going to the other extreme. This is obviously not a problem that can be solved by a template, and we must not be superstitious and rely on "artifacts."

The theoretical sources of encouraging education are rich, such as expectation theory, behaviorism teaching theory and achievement motivation theory. Attribution theory in social psychology is an important theoretical source of stimulating education.

The encouragement of parents or teachers is actually to guide children and students to attribute their actions or results positively, to form a positive hint for children, and to guide children to work hard in the right direction in their future study and life. It should be pointed out that "encouraging education" or "encouraging education" is not always expressed by "praise". There is not only positive encouragement, but also timely criticism and guidance. Criticism is also a kind of encouragement. Therefore, encouraging education is not equal to "praising education", and its connotation and extension are not covered by "praising children’s artifacts".

What needs to be more vigilant is that simple "praise education" is prone to such negative effects: children’s pride, excessive emphasis on the positive evaluation of others, self-doubt after encountering difficulties, and serious collapse of confidence may occur.

In a word, "praise education" is only one of the methods of encouraging education, and we need to master the correct methods to avoid negative effects.

First, let children get the feeling of love. Sincere and loving language is the most powerful. If parents’ words and deeds can make children feel love, they will certainly give them the greatest encouragement and feel happiness and joy. The stylized language may be useful for young children, but for older children, the perfunctory feeling and "plastic texture" come to the fore, and the effect can be imagined.

Second, the key is to truly discover the bright spot of children. The core of encouraging education is that parents should find the bright spot of their children, instead of trying to organize language and "please" their children with praise. In order to change from "yelling at mom and dad" to "praising mom and dad", parents must first change the perspective of observing their children and truly discover and appreciate their excellent side. If you don’t really feel that your child is doing well, "hard praise" may embarrass both sides. And if we really find a bright spot recognized by both sides, then this bright spot will become brighter and brighter.

Third, the orientation should be clear and the direction should be specific. Clear orientation means that encouragement for children should be designed, for example, from personal efforts rather than from uncontrollable factors such as appearance. Pointing to the concrete means that the encouraged matters must point to the concrete actual behavior, not the virtual or expected matters.

Fourth, trust and pass the trust signal to the children. In encouraging education, the signal of trust to children plays a very important role. Trust is not a slogan, but should be practiced by parents. On the one hand, some parents trust their children, on the other hand, they do many things that make them lack trust, which makes them lose trust in their parents, and encouraging education is not easy to use.

In a word, encouraging education is a good method in parenting education, but it is by no means equal to "praising education". To make encouraging education effective, parents’ love, patience and carefulness are indispensable, especially the change of children’s observation perspective and evaluation perspective. (The author is the librarian of Xichang National Preschool Teachers College) Author: Liao Dekai

Source: China Education News Network

On the second day of the table tennis World Cup quarter-finals, there was a fierce confrontation. Players from China, Japan, Korea, Germany, France and Sweden showed their high-level skills and tenacious fighting spirit, bringing a wonderful table tennis feast to the audience.

On the second day of the table tennis World Cup quarter-finals, the players from six teams, China, Japan, South Korea, Germany, France and Sweden, showed their top skills and strong desire for competition. The audience witnessed a thrilling confrontation in the tense and exciting competition.

The first is the contest between the Chinese and German teams. China sent powerful players Malone and Fan Zhendong, while the German team was composed of Bohr and Ochalov. In this game, the players of both sides played inextricably, and the superb skills and the tenacity of psychological quality became the key to victory or defeat. In the end, China beat the German team 3-1 and advanced to the semi-finals.

Next, the Japanese team and the French team launched a fierce confrontation. Japanese players Jun Mizutani and Zhang Benzhi played against French players Liang Jingkun and Lucretier respectively. The whole game was full of skill and speed, and the wonderful moment when the players competed for each ball on the stage made the audience stare. In the end, Japan beat France 3-0 and advanced smoothly.

At the same time, the confrontation between South Korea and Sweden is also expected. South Korea sent Xu Xin and Yin Hang, while Sweden was made up of Okalov and falk. In this game, the players showed high competition skills and strong willpower. After fierce competition, South Korea narrowly beat Sweden 3-2 and advanced to the semi-finals.

In this wonderful table tennis feast, the players’ fighting spirit and top-level performance are amazing. They brought unforgettable matchups to the audience with the wonderful moments of each ball.

The table tennis World Cup quarter-finals will continue, and the four promotion teams will further compete cruelly. The audience are full of expectations for the next game, and they are looking forward to seeing more jaw-dropping wonderful rounds and exciting victory moments.

On the stage of this table tennis World Cup, the players from China, Japan, Korea, Germany, France and Sweden showed top-level skills and indomitable spirit. No matter who can win the championship in the end, these players have become legends in the table tennis world and brought us unforgettable table tennis feasts.

Let’s continue to pay attention to the wonderful events of the Table Tennis World Cup and cheer for these excellent players! Let’s witness the brilliant moment of the table tennis world together!

The game lineup in 2023 is the most exciting for players in the past decade. With the maturity of Unreal 5 engine since 2023, PS5 and XSX/S consoles have officially entered the golden age, and many manufacturers have launched many excellent games. The three major console manufacturers all plan to release at least one blockbuster game this year, including Microsoft’s Starry Sky, Sony’s Marvel Comics spider-man 2 and Nintendo’s the legend of zelda: Tears of the Kingdom, supplemented by third-party game lineups, including Hogwarts Legacy, Resident Evil 4: Remastered Edition, Star Wars, Street Fighter 6, Diablo 4 and Assassin’s Creed.

The first quarter of 2023 has passed, and this quarter has lived up to the expectations of players. IGN has rated 20 games with 8 points, including two 10-point games. Let’s take a look at how many you have played.

1. The Heart of the Atom

2. "company of heroes 3" multi-person part

3. I wish you a good death

4. Meet the Creator

5. "Resident Evil: Village VR"

6. Son of Mori

7. Wild Heart

8. Wolong: The Fall of Heaven

9.《WWE 2K23》

1. bayonetta: Origin

2. Dead Space: Remastered Edition

3. Arms of Fire: Combination

4.《Gran Turismo 7 VR》

5.《Hi-Fi Rush》

6. The Legacy of Hogwarts

7.《MLB The Show 23》

8. Pizza Tower

9. Rhythm Theater: Final Fantasy

Galactic warrior Prime replica edition

Resident Evil 4: Remastered Edition

Recently, the Ministry of Education, the Ministry of Finance, and the National Bureau of Statistics held a national promotion meeting on financial education investment and education funds statistics. The meeting systematically summed up the main achievements in the statistical work of financial education investment and education funds since the 18th National Congress of the Communist Party of China, exchanged typical experiences, and made arrangements for the work this year and the next period.

The meeting emphasized that it is a strategic plan made by the CPC Central Committee and the State Council to give priority to the development of education to ensure that the proportion of national fiscal education expenditure to GDP is generally not less than 4%, that the fiscal general public budget education expenditure only increases year by year, and that the average general public budget education expenditure according to the number of students in school only increases year by year. All localities should always give priority to the development of education, further intensify their work, and ensure that the responsibility for investment is put in place.Ensure that the "two increases only do not decrease" are put in place and that the annual budget is implemented in place. It is necessary to strengthen management and ensure the standardized and efficient use of education funds.

The meeting emphasized that the statistics of education funds is an important comprehensive and basic work to systematically reflect the information of education economy, an important starting point to promote the implementation of the responsibility of education investment, and an important support to formulate and improve the education investment policy. It is necessary to actively adapt to the requirements of high-quality development, further improve the statistical system of education funds, and establish and improve the dynamic monitoring mechanism for the implementation of education funds. It is necessary to further improve the statistical standards, indicators and systems of education funds, improve the statistical quality and ability of education funds, and give full play to the supporting role of information consultation, monitoring and supervision and decision-making.

Responsible comrades of relevant departments and directly affiliated units of the Ministry of Education, the Ministry of Finance and the National Bureau of Statistics attended the meeting at the main venue, and responsible comrades of education, finance and statistics departments of all provinces (autonomous regions and municipalities directly under the Central Government), cities with separate plans and Xinjiang Production and Construction Corps attended the meeting by video at the sub-venue.

Source: Ministry of Education website